when u turn 20 there is this shell u want to come out spread ur wings and fly to the future u cant see so hell with the future first things first due to the trauma faced in ur teens u start kooking for a girlfriend and for a introvert 20 something its like climbing everest minus the safety gear the uncertanities loom will i find the right girl? who is the right girl? how do i approach when i find the right girl or just will i evr find a girl ? the ladies plz replace the girl with guy then begins the ever lasting search evry hot chic or guy that passes by is a potential target and soon for the so called introvert shy guys/girls frustration builds as the objective alludes us and the next big question is how to attain this objective hence the endless and the sleepless nts of thinking ,visiting dating sites ,or just old fashioned masturbatin common ur sexual energy needs a vent .